Saturday, August 16

Date Night!!!!!!!

Matt and I haven't had a date in a L O N G time. I think it's been almost a year since we've been out without friends or someone else along. Tonight was finally OUR night. I'm so very glad that we did it. And that we did it alone. It forced us to have time just the two of us. I even did a special hairdo for Matt. He really likes it when I straighten my hair, so I surprised him.




First, we had a GREAT dinner at Melting Pot, a fondue restaurant. Matt had never been there, but really enjoyed the experience. AND, they offer a 1/2 price military discount! GREAT deal! Here are a few pictures I took tonight. (Yes, it's my version of Matt Logelin. No, my camera's not as great as his.)





Then we went to see the new Batman movie. We really both liked it. Then we met Rachel and Bob for drinks.


Definitely the best night we've had in a really long time. I think it renewed some interest and some connection with each other that we haven't had in a long time. Definitely a much needed and VERY much appreciated night!!!

Thursday, August 14

My Birthday

Today, I turned 29 years old. I spent it with my two greatest loves and biggest accomplishments, MY BOYS! Payton gave me this:

It's the Polish Birthday Song

Matt had to work today and left early this morning. The boys and I played most of the morning away and tried to figure out if we should keep the dog or kill her. She made her own doggie door last night while I was at the gym.



We decided to give her one more chance. She better not blow this!!

Anyway, back to MY day. Max ate like a big at lunch and then napped for 3.5 hours!!! In the mean time, I made a few phone calls and then I played Mario Kart on the Wii for 1.5 hours with my kid. We did some coloring afterwards and played with the dog.

I had an appointment with a GREAT sales rep at Verizon who let me trade in my phone early. He said it was because it was my birthday. I think he really just wanted me to leave him alone. LOL But whatever it was, I got my new phone and we headed up to a friend's house.

My very good friend, Angie, offered to make me and my boys dinner for my birthday. So very sweet of her! She made a delicious meal of sausages, potatoes and carrots in this foil packet with lots of butter and spices. So yummy! Then for dessert she made a cherry crumb cake. She even got me a little package of stationary. We had a great night talking about our kids and our lives.

Now I'm home, the kids are in bed, I'm beat and I'm heading to bed. Thank you to everyone who called or texted me on my birthday to with me a happy day and sing to me. It means so much.

Wednesday, August 13

Let That Be Enough

I'm not one to quote lyrics. And I'm not one to talk religion much, but this song, by Switchfoot and Jars of Clay, speaks very strongly to me right now. Coincidentally, it IS the day before my birthday and my birthday DOES fall on a Thursday this year, but 29, not 22.


Click here to hear the song
Let That Be Enough
I wish I had what I needed
To be on my own
'Cause I feel so defeated
And I'm feeling alone

And it all seems so helpless
And I have no plans
I'm a plane in the sunset
With nowhere to land

And all I see
It could never make me happy
And all my sand castles
Spend their time collapsing

Let me know that
You hear me
Let me know Your touch
Let me know that You love me
Let that be enough

It's my birthday tomorrow
No one here could know
I was born this Thursday
22 years ago

And I feel stuck watching history repeating
Yeah, who am I? Just a kid who knows he's needy

Let me know that You hear me
Let me know Your touch
Let me know that You love me
And let that be enough

Let me know that You hear me
Let me know Your touch
Let me know that You love me
And let that be enough

Tuesday, August 12

Reflecting on Summer Beauty

In the spring, I planted some "wildflower seed mix", "sunflower seed mix" and some "cut bouquet flower seeds" behind all my marigolds and zinnias in our front beds. I wasn't sure what was weed and what was flower when they were coming up, but now, there's no doubt. This lil' beauty is one of two blooming and I have about a dozen more that will bloom soon!


I'm always amazed at what can come from such little work and effort with just the right amount of sun and water. It's kind of like my kids. I'm never sure if I'm messing them up or helping them. It's not until Maxwell uses a new sign that I've been teaching him or until Payton finally GETS how to read that I see the results of my labor. The "sun" and "water" I provide will hopefully give them deep roots to help them get through life.

Monday, August 11

Family Time

Matt brought the boys home from Ohio last night around 7pm. Payton was so happy to see me that he couldn't stop telling me he loved me and he'd missed me. All night long. It was great. When we put him to bed, he even asked me to lay with him for five minutes so he could cuddle. He never does that. It's so nice to have him home.

This morning when we all got up, we decided to take a family zoo trip. Our first this year. Family time was needed. And more is still needed. Here are the pictures from today.










Sunday, August 10

Gone to the dogs

Ya'll know that Payton's at my parents. To see what he's been up to, see my dad's blog. (Feel free to comment there.) He's been having a great time. Matt had military in Toledo, OH this weekend and he took Maxwell there to see his parents. So I've been virtually alone this weekend, sans our newest family member, Missy.

She's doing pretty good around here. She has had a few potty accidents, but for the most part, is pretty well potty trained. She LOVES people and even the boys. They climb and play all over her. She loves to be run, but I just can't run her as fast as she likes to go, so we take long walks almost everyday.

Today, I decided to be brave. I took her to Mt. Clemens Dog Park. I was a bit hesitant and it probably showed. I just wasn't sure she'd ever been around other dogs or how she would react.

We stood outside the fence and watched the fifteen or so other dogs for about five minutes. It was a bit intimidating. She sniffed at a few dogs through the fence and seemed ok. Maybe she could do this. Maybe I could do this. "Be assertive calm. Act like this is your yard." I can hear Cesar Millan in my head. I led her in on her leash. "Calm. Assertive. This is your yard. Be the pack leader."

Missy seemed to be doing fine. A lil' pup came up and sniffed her and she was fine with that. Then a larger dog. Ok. She seems cool with this whole thing. I take the leash off. It's like the other dogs could smell fresh meat. Within five minutes she was being barked at and chased down. Kind of scary to see eight large dogs chasing your dog around in circles.

The novelty wore of after a few minutes. I could tell she didn't like being the chase-ee. We took a walk around the fence while she calmed down. I got her a bowl of water and she rested a bit. Her lil' pup friend, who I learned is "Peanut", came back to see how she was. The two sniffed awhile and Missy decided she was alright enough.

That didn't last long. Soon it wasn't just "Peanut". No, it became "Jack", "Sam", "Betty", "Brutus", "Mark" and "Snowcone". That was too much for my Missy. Turns out that the brute of the bunch really is Brutus. He takes a snap at her and before I know it Missy's pinned to the ground and can't get up because there are too many dogs around her. They smell her fear.

Luckily, a few other owners and I all stepped in at the same time and saved poor Missy from certain demise. I took her back to our corner and got her calmed down again. I could tell she wanted to stay and play, but she was really scared of Brutus. Brutus' owner was embarrassed by his snapping and behaviour, apologized and left the park.

Maybe this would work after all. A very kind lady came and introduced her dogs to us and we made friends with Lucky and Maggie. Both were very large dogs, but had calm demeanors and Missy seemed ok with them. It started to rain and we headed into the shelter.

The park cleared out in the rain and only a few of us remained. It was nice to talk and get to know the other pet owners a bit. I realize now that I don't know their names, only those of their pets. And they knew each other, but only their pets' names. Very odd. But the owners of "Lucky", "Maggie", "Missy", "Sash", "Blondie", "Spirit", "Sam" and "Rusty" sat and talked about our pets, about "Bark at the Park" and about other dog owners who had left. Turns out, Missy hasn't been Brutus' only victim.

While we owners talked, the pups formed a nice bond. They chased each other, balls and climbed on picnic tables and HUGE tires. I think she really likes "Rusty", "Blondie" and "Maggie" the best.

The park was great. Lots of places to run and play. Tons of toys there. VERY clean and everyone picks up after their pups. And very nice people. And some pretty cool dogs too. I think we'll go back very soon.