We've figured out the basics of the finances and we're talking about taking a trip out there in July. I have a list of "honey-dos" for him before he leaves (I refuse to have the Christmas lights on the house all summer!) and I've started a list of what we need to purchase for him.
Friends are pouring out their love and support. So many friends have offered to watch the boys when needed. I hope I get to take advantage of it all! I got a great message from a friend who's been through this; all the things to do and expect. It was exactly what I needed...and brought me to tears. In a good way - kind of. It's hard knowing what's to come, but was so great to know she's been there and took the time to share it with me. Another friend and I are working out a weekly appointment where she'll come here so that I can go grocery shopping. Yes, I could take the boys, and I will for quick trips, but I really, really dislike shopping with two kids in tow if I can avoid it. Besides, this momma needs alone time!
One of Matt's co-workers offered her husband for his husbandly services: house maintenance. (Geez! Get your mind out of the gutter!) It's nice to know that I can call on him if something breaks or needs done. This girl's pretty handy, but I can't do everything! Now...if I could just find a neighborhood boy to mow my lawn a few days a week...Hmmmmm....
My inlaws came up to visit today. We didn't talk much about the topic because the boys were always around, but we were able to speak in code a few times and got a few things worked out. They'll be taking the boys the weekend tied to the first Friday of every month so that I can keep my girls' night! It's so badly needed - even when my husband is home!
My mom has offered her loving services, too. I hope she'll be able to come up one of the first few weeks Matt is gone. And then once a month for a few days until school lets out... ugh. This is going to be so long.
I haven't let my emotions get the best of me yet. I think it will happen soon though...I can feel them welling inside me. Between the boys' birthday party in a few weeks and planning all this deployment stuff, it won't take long, I'm sure.
2 comments:
Hey I had my christmas lights up all yr once, you just learn to ignore them lol. Any way we will be there for you.Love Mom K
Let me know if you need absolutely anything. Who knows what the future will bring - maybe I can make it up at some point and help you out for a weekend. :)
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